Stop Giving A Damn About Everything

STOP GIVING A DAMN ABOUT EVERYTHING

Stop giving a damn about everything. But do a big damn about one thing. Care only about what is important. Don’t give a second thought to everything else. Screw what others think. Screw what others have. Screw what others want. What do you want? Screw everything else. You can’t have a passion for everything, but you can have a passion for one thing.

Don’t hide in the darkness. Bathe in the light.

Stop being pissed off, about always being pissed off. Stop being mad at yourself, for always being mad at yourself. Stop being unhappy, for always being unhappy. Get over your ego. Get over your feelings. Get over your thoughts. They are barriers.

Everything you give a damn about owns you. Less is better. More is worse.

When I could not stand my f*****g career anymore I became free. When I gave a damn I was blind. When I finally didn’t give a damn what would happen and quit at the height of my career, I rose to a new height. I saw the light. It was always there. I just couldn’t see it in the darkness.

Fall down often. Just get up. Fail often. Just don’t quit. The more you fight your fears, the stronger your fears get.

Stop perusing feeling happy. Stop perusing enlightenment. You are the Light. By perusing it you are telling yourself and everyone else you are not happy and not enlightened. You don’t pursue what you already have. You pursue what you think you don’t have. The more you pursue the light the darker it gets.

Stop giving a f**k about all the small crap. When you stop chasing what you want, it will chase you. Alan Watts, the Zen philosopher called it the Backwards Law.

Don’t build more walls of fear in your mind. Knock them down. They are not solid. Let them blow away. The more walls of fear you build, the bigger your prison becomes.The bigger the minds prison walls the darker it gets.

When there are no walls, the light shine’s in. 

City Slickers Movie The Secret of Life

In the movie City Slickers Jack Palance taught Billy Crystal the secret of life. We couldn’t agree more with his sage advice.

The past few years after surviving a terminal illness I threw myself face first into one new thing after another. I was so happy to come back from the dead, I wasn’t going to miss a thing. I wanted to do all I could to enjoy each moment and each day. And by enjoying each day I would build a new life.

Well for the past 10 years I have been doing that. Enjoying each day and trying new things. What were those new things? In my previous life I was a structured, Type A, work obsessed corporate executive at a fortune 100 enterprise. This time I was bound to never work for anyone ever again. So, I became an entrepreneur.

I started an Executive Search firm, grew it and sold it. I then started a Business Brokerage firm. Decided it was too much like work so I started a non-profit. Love that, and kept leading it but needed more to occupy my life. So with all my past experience I became a Life and Business Coach. Teaching people how not to work themselves to death.And to that I became a writer and started a small publishing company.

I have done other things as well. But with all that busy-ness I started to become disillusioned. Somewhere along the way, it went from fun and exciting, to an obsession. So I decided I needed to get back to being happy full-time. I decided to narrow my focus and pick just one of all the businesses I had, and do just one. I knew by doing just one, I would have time to both plant and smell the flowers again. But, What would my one thing be?


I really believe, and have experienced it all throughout my life that when I have a burning desire, something shows up in my life to guide me towards it. And what showed up? The One Thing book by Gary Keller.

When I read the book I knew I was being guided towards my goal of happiness and doing just One Thing. The One Thing that made all other of the things I was doing unnecessary. I decided upon a criteria for my One Thing. It had to change the lives of others. It had to use my passion and it had to be the best thing I could do with my remaining years.

Well if you have read my One Thing 66 Day Workbook I wrote after finishing Keller’s book, you know I created a specific plan to not just pick my One Thing, but to really accomplish and live it. I wanted to change my life for now the third time.

So of all the business I have and all the various things I’ve been doing; what is my One Thing? Its devoting myself 100% to my nonprofit organization. The nonprofit I started after surviving my terminal illness over 10 years ago Green Pets America Charities. GPA is unique among animal welfare organizations. We are not your usual rescue the dogs organization. We are that of course… but we are so much more. Our whole reason for being is to make life better for families with companion animals. Particularly we help families in need care for and feed their pets. We keep the bond between people and their pets strong and together, even through difficult financial times.

So do you want to know the secret of life. Follow Curley’s advice from the City Slickers Movie The Secret of Life and “Do One Thing”

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The One Thing book by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan is the top-selling business book today. I have read it twice. What the book was missing for me however  was a powerful Workbook to put all of its teachings into action.

As a successful serial entrepreneur I knew that to follow through on my personal intent and achieve my top One Thing for 2017 I would have to create a framework that would laser focus me on my desire, until it was achieved. I was ready for a big change.

I knew that this was not just a book to read, then put on my shelf and soon lose its powerful lesson. All too often we read a great book, or go to a powerful seminar and then it ends there. We do not follow through. We do not create a habit based on the message of the book or of the seminar.

So to shed my old chasing shiny objects habit of shifting focus often and replace it with a new habit of staying focused on my primary one thing, I created a plan. Part of that plan was a set of questions to ask and answer myself each day. Why? because science and psychology has clearly demonstrated that we can rewire our brain patterns and change our habits in 66 days. Some people take longer, some can do it in less than 66 days.

I learned that these 5 questions, done for 66 days held me accountable, kept me focused on my success plan, actually changed my brain pattern, and created a new success habit. And with it I achieved my ONE THING… in just a few months.  You too can master this book and create a One Thing habit. Purchase the One Thing 66 Day Workbook.


Do not lose this opportunity to make 2017 your best year ever. Create a One Thing Habit over the next 66 days. Do not put this off and do not self-sabotage yourself again.

 

One Thing 66 Day Workbook

The One Thing 66 Day Workbook

One Thing 66 Day Workbook is the Surprisingly Simple way to get all the power from the One Thing Book, written by authors and real estate entrepreneurs, Gary W. Keller and Jay Papasan.


The One Thing book is the top-selling and I think best book for entrepreneurs today. It’s the clear path to entrepreneurial success in today’s noisy world.


What the book was missing however was a quick, but powerful Workbook to put all of this New York Times bestseller’s teachings into action.

As a successful serial entrepreneur I knew that to follow through on my personal intent and achieve my top One Thing for 2017 I would have to create a framework that would laser focus me on my desire, until it was achieved. I was ready for a big change. I knew that this was not just a book to read, then put on my shelf and soon lose its powerful lesson.

So to shed my old chasing shiny objects habit of shifting focus often and replace it with a new habit of staying focused on my primary one thing, I created a plan. Part of that plan was a set of questions to ask and answer myself each day. Why? because science and psychology has clearly demonstrated that we can rewire our brain patterns and change our habits in 66 days. Some people take longer, some can do it in less than 66 days.

I learned that these 5 questions, done for 66 days held me accountable, kept me focused on my success plan, actually changed my brain pattern, and created a new success habit. And with it I achieved my ONE THING… in just a few months. They are five simple questions. I did the first two as soon as I got out of bed each morning. I did the last three before I went to bed each night. Well I did this for 66 days. At the end I had mastered my ONE THING. I not only mastered it, I was living it.


One Thing 66 Day Workbook

The One Thing book is the top-selling best book for entrepreneurs today. It’s the clear path to entrepreneurial success in today’s noisy world.


This worked for me. This workbook worked for my Ideas Institute Georgia Mastermind. I know it will work for you. Do not lose this opportunity to make 2017 your best year ever. Please do not procrastinate any longer or self-sabotage yourself again.

Buy The One Thing 66 Day Workbook now on Amazon.

One Thing 66 Day Workbook